Wednesday, October 8, 2008

Every time when I am asked to talk to my friends because they are down, I'm free to listen to them. But the thing that I hate most about it is that I'm always lost of words to advice them or something like that. I want to tell them all that I have to say to them, but it seems so tough for me to phrase them. If only they knew what was in my mind. Going through all these are like a burden to me, though I'm helping them and releasing them from their worries and sorrows. I'm more of the type of person who would be open for hugs if comfort is needed. I don't know why, but it's so much easier to hug then to give advices.

And when whoever I talk to cries, I would feel like crying too. I dislike seeing people around me going through pains. It just hurts me so much. I've already learnt to let go of everything(my own problems) that burdens me. But when it comes to realising people around me who are burdened, that I can't seem to let go. It just clings on to me, until and unless that person is not burdened by it anymore.

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